Erotic Breakthrough Specialist

professional consultant for therapeutic teams

We all need support.

It’s often challenging to welcome clients’ erotic desires into the therapy room, and there are some places that may not make sense for you to go with your clients. Still, we want our clients to have a diverse and holistic experience on their healing journey. Perhaps you’re working with a client who:

  • experiences significant sexual shame that they’re not able to break through with traditional therapy

  • is interested in BDSM, but too ashamed or lost to figure out how to explore it in a safe and healthy way

  • has experienced trauma that is presenting through kinky fantasies

  • struggles with their sexuality or sexual identity

I’m Lauren.

I work hand-in-hand with you and your client to develop a series or sessions to support major breakthroughs in the client’s healing journey.

My sessions incorporate methodology from across Internal Family Systems, Psychodrama, and Conscious BDSM. My work with clients welcomes erotic energy to be in the room, and there is no genital contact or sexual touch.

Check out my full Ethics Statement.

Let’s work together.

Interested in working together? Fill out the form below and I will reach out to schedule a 30-minute consult.

  • "Through diving deep with Lauren I was able to locate and heal wounds from as early as childhood that were causing me to repeat the same patterns over and over again."

    Alex G

  • "I’ve struggled with deep shame about my kinky desires... but after sessions with Lauren I feel refreshed and invigorated. She helps me access deep consciousness, express inner parts of myself, and relax into knowing that my fantasies are a part of being human.

    Anonymous

  • "Working with Lauren was like a balm to my soul. I was able to be open and real, to talk about things I haven't been able to talk to anyone about, to ask questions, and consider practices and ideas that have historically scared me."

    Kyndyll L

  • "Thank you to Lauren who helped me to liberate my sexuality. She held space for me and my past trauma in the most gentle way. I felt so seen and honored and understood and validated. She helped me to understand why I was shutting down my sexuality and how to make space for it."

    Sooz M

  • "Weaving in the somatic and psychological intersection of BDSM and coaching helped me integrate the insights from our work into my subconscious and my body. I stepped directly into an empowered version of myself."

    Piper

  • "Lauren listens deeply and compassionately, makes space for hard questions and hard answers, and is a fierce companion along my journey."

    Sarah A

  • "If you're looking to go deep and come back changed, Lauren should be your guide."

    Anonymous

  • "My work with Lauren shifted my being into alignment with the larger shape of who I really am."

    Elena V